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− | <br>Any reasonable person would think it slightly off-color to crash a wedding. When that wedding happens to be in Laos<br>who is to say if its inappropriate or not? Whom am I kidding? I was well aware of the potential drawbacks of dropping in on an event that I was clearly not invited.<br>It<br>wouldnt be the first time leering eyes would be cast upon<br><br>me as I casually pressed my way up to the buffet table.<br>Lets regress for a minute. Some people might not know what<br>the word "crash" means in the first sentence. For those of<br>you who have been sheltered from large community<br>centers/bowling alleys for the duration of your lives I can<br>understand. Its been my experience that a bowling alley in<br><br>the same venue as a wedding reception brings out the largest<br>proportion of uninvited guests or what we like to call<br>"wedding crashers."<br>That certainly wasnt the case here. No bowling alleys in<br>Laos! In particular no bowling alley that doubles as a<br>reception hall. This of course is not a researched fact,<br><br>but Im willing to bet anyone 100,000 kip that in two weeks<br>you couldnt find any sign of the leisure sport of the<br>drunk. Lawn bowling doesnt count. For all I know lawn<br>bowling or "bocce ball" is their national sport eclipsed<br>only by badminton and a game of hands-free volleyball played<br><br>with a wicker ball. The name eludes me almost as much as<br>the skill needed to play the sport.<br>The truth is I was hungry. A traditional Lao massage<br>administered by blind women in the late afternoon completely<br>wiped me out and I had just woken at 11PM from a 4-hour nap.<br>If youre still reading this you might wonder how does one<br><br>get "wiped out" from a massage. Arent these things<br>supposed to be relaxing? Yeah and no. Primarily NO in my<br>case. It appears that the muscles from my toes to my thighs<br>dont like to be physically manipulated away from the bone<br>as the massage suggests. For a mere 30,000 Kip or $3 US <br><br>an hour massage from a skilled therapist seems like a great<br>deal. That is if sometime in that hour you dont burst all<br>the blood vessels in your face from wincing so hard. If my<br>therapist hadnt been blind Im pretty sure she would have<br>thought she was killing me. I would have felt like a puss<br><br>so I broke out the yoga breathing and | + | <br>Any reasonable person would think it slightly off-color to crash a wedding. When that wedding happens to be in Laos<br>who is to say if its inappropriate or not? Whom am I kidding? I was well aware of the potential drawbacks of dropping in on an event that I was clearly not invited.<br>It<br>wouldnt be the first time leering eyes would be cast upon<br><br>me as I casually pressed my way up to the buffet table.<br>Lets regress for [http://vtr.org.vn/kham-pha-xu-chua-vang-myanmar.html Tour du lịch Myanmar] a minute. Some people might not know what<br>the word "crash" means in the first sentence. For those of<br>you who have been sheltered from large community<br>centers/bowling alleys for the duration of your lives I can<br>understand. Its been my experience that a bowling alley in<br><br>the same venue as a wedding reception brings out the largest<br>proportion of uninvited guests or what we like to call<br>"wedding crashers."<br>That certainly wasnt the case here. No bowling alleys in<br>Laos! In particular no bowling alley that doubles as a<br>reception hall. This of course is not a researched fact,<br><br>but Im willing to bet anyone 100,000 kip that in two weeks<br>you couldnt find any sign of the leisure sport of the<br>drunk. Lawn bowling doesnt count. For all I know lawn<br>bowling or "bocce ball" is their national sport eclipsed<br>only by badminton and a game of hands-free volleyball played<br><br>with a wicker ball. The name eludes me almost as much as<br>the skill needed to play the sport.<br>The truth is I was hungry. A traditional Lao massage<br>administered by blind women in the late afternoon completely<br>wiped me out and I had just woken at 11PM from a 4-hour nap.<br>If youre still reading this you might wonder how does one<br><br>get "wiped out" from a massage. Arent these things<br>supposed to be relaxing? Yeah and no. Primarily NO in my<br>case. It appears that the muscles from my toes to my thighs<br>dont like to be physically manipulated away from the bone<br>as the massage suggests. For a mere 30,000 Kip or $3 US <br><br>an hour massage from a skilled therapist seems like a great<br>deal. That is if sometime in that hour you dont burst all<br>the blood vessels in your face from wincing so hard. If my<br>therapist hadnt been blind Im pretty sure she would have<br>thought she was killing me. I would have felt like a puss<br><br>so I broke out the yoga breathing and prayed not to succumb<br>to hyperventilation. <br>Regardless, it was now 11PM and if I didnt move from my<br>guesthouse quickly there would be little chance of [http://www.examandinterviewtips.com/search?q=finding finding]<br>any late night eatery in Luang Prabang. Places tend to close<br>after the electricity cuts at 9PM.<br><br>Things looked bleak upon leaving the guesthouse. There<br>didnt appear to be any lights, tuk tuk drivers or for that<br>matter people in site. There was, however, a clear path of<br>music being generated from beyond the cement building<br>horizon.<br>Sounded like a party. Parties oftentimes have food. So off<br><br>we went. At this stage of the story I introduce you to my<br>friend Paul who spent most of the duration of the night<br>within earshot of me. It became clear to me as we rounded<br>the first corner that the music was definitely coming from<br>this street. It was time to move beyond my usual sloth like<br><br>pace caused by the extreme heat and humidity. I could see a<br>few motor scooters in the distance coming and going.<br>As we got closer it became evident that this was the real<br>deal. People were hopping on their Chinese mananufactured<br>motor scooters in suits with beautiful Laotian women draped<br>over the backs. They sit sidesaddle because their silk<br><br>skirts or "sins" wraps tightly down to their ankles. A<br>quick decision was needed as we approached the entry gate.<br>Just walk in slowly and pretend Im not with the poorly<br>dressed vagabond to my side. This wouldnt work. We<br>entered the gate, saw about 20 people sitting at tables and<br>another 30 or so under a wooden canopy dancing to live<br><br>music. I noticed there werent any people doing the drunken<br>"hook-up" stager that are so prevalent at weddings in the<br>states. The vibe was comfortable, respectful and fully<br>devoid of my wedding experiences. <br>I made a b-line for the 15-foot buffet table. It was<br>definitely the path of least resistance. It was obvious<br><br>that everyone had finished eating at least 2 hours prior and<br>the table was in the process of being taken down. Seemed<br>[http://www.zixiutangpollencapsules.com/?s=fairly%20logical fairly logical] that I grab a spring roll and dowse it in<br>some spicy papaya sauce before it becomes a leftover.<br>Before I could even put the first bite in my mouth a pair of<br>women rounded the table and [http://vtr.org.vn/kham-pha-xu-chua-vang-myanmar.html Tour du lịch Myanmar từ hà nội] handed us all the utensils we<br><br>needed. "Kop Chi Li Li" or thank you spewed from mouth<br>about 100 times in the next 3 minutes. They either liked<br>the way I pronounced the phrase or had giant hearts because<br>their smiles stretched from ear to ear.<br>The buffet had what appeared to most of the staples of the<br>Laos diet. There was a type of yellow chicken curry, some<br><br>spicy beef, spingrolls, fresh vegetables and a giant vat of<br>sticky rice. Within seconds of loading up our plates the<br>two drunkest 20-year olds at the party pulled up four chairs<br>for us. One for our plates and the other for our asses.<br>Before even taking my first bit I had a 1/3 glass full of<br><br>BeerLao between my eyes.<br>This is where the story takes a dramatic twist. It is not<br>because I started drinking. Thats a little later. The<br>twist is because this story is being composed for Break<br>Magazine and they dont allow any references to drugs or<br>alcohol. Therefore I have written two versions. The one<br><br>where I drink myself to a point where I believe I can<br>understand the Lao language is the version you are reading.<br>Although we were given utensils I chose to forego the<br>westernization of the land and eat using the dipping<br>technique utilized by most people. Three bites in and once<br>again a 1/3 full glass of BeerLao is between my eyes. The<br><br>young man offering the glass was pimped out in a black<br>tuxedo and appeared to be the kind of guy whom you should<br>accept a drink from. Another "kop chi li li", a swig from<br>his glass and we were friends. I pulled up another chair<br>for the special guest and we began to speak. The<br>conversation took a slow start. Not because of tuxedo man,<br><br>but rather because I had been so used to talking to people<br>who spoke absolutely no English, that I was conversing like<br>a trained monkey. <br>Shortly into the conversation I learned Pond was indeed the<br>honored guest at what I learned was his wedding. The<br>handsome 24-year old had just been hitched and he oozed<br><br>elation. As I scarified down my food I learned he works for<br>the Lao government as an AIDS educator. He also told us<br>about a cousin of his who lives in NYC and his desire to my<br>town. My door will always be open. <br>Laotian men usually marry in there twenties. The bride is<br>usually younger. She will most likely be from the same<br><br>village and will probably be related in some degree because<br>most villages are small. Couples choose each other, but the<br>heads of both families decide when the couple will marry,<br>where they will live, and what bride price must be paid to<br>the girls father. This is usually in currency, [http://vtr.org.vn/kham-pha-xu-chua-vang-myanmar.html Tour du lịch Myanmar] although in<br><br>olden times it was in livestock or grain.<br>The grooms family delivers the bride price to the brides<br>father on the day before the wedding. The grooms<br>relatives parade to the brides house with gifts of food,<br>tobacco, betel and so on. The groom makes his formal<br>request for the bride. Her family, after a long-winded,<br><br>purely ceremonial show of reluctance finally agrees. In the<br>presence of a bonze or village elder, the couple is<br>officially betrothed. The next day, the groom and his<br>relatives again proceed to the brides house, [http://vtr.org.vn/kham-pha-xu-chua-vang-myanmar.html Tour du lịch Myanmar] where they<br>make a great show of fighting and bribe their way into the<br>yard. The groom must persuade the brides sister to wash<br><br>his feet before he can ascend the steps to the house and<br>claim his bride.<br>Divorce is rare in Laos, partly because each marriage<br>concerns everyone in two large, extended families. If a<br>marriage is dissolved, the bride price has to be returned,<br>and there are endless complications concerning inheritance<br><br>and land use. It is much more sensible to compromise.<br>Working things out, in general, is the Laotian response to<br>almost every conflict. Isnt that a novel idea?<br>In the background we watched the nucleus of the party dance.<br>Thankfully there are no traditions of the Marquerena or<br>chicken dance in Laos. This is one of the things Im<br><br>happiest about. Tonight they danced the Lamvong. Its a<br>combination folk dance and courting ritual. Girls dance in<br>place with short, rhythmic steps, while boys weave circles<br>around them; no one touches. The faces of the dancers are<br>completely expressionless, but their arms and hands wave in<br><br>complicated patterns expressive of love and devotion.<br>Frankly, unless you are Laotian, you will end up looking<br>like a queen doing this jig.<br>The groom apologized to us that the party we crashed was<br>almost over. He insisted we accompany him to the parents of<br>his wifes house for an after party. The two guys sitting<br><br>next to us indicated that they would escort us to the party.<br>Pond cordially dismissed himself and affirmed our<br>attendance.<br>As soon as the 48-ounce bottle of BeerLao was cashed we<br>would head out. As the pace and the amount of the beer in<br>the glass increased I decided to engage the transportation<br><br>question. I was pretty sure these guys had scooters.<br>Frankly Im not a big fan of riding on the back of those<br>things in any situation. In addition, I was positive both<br>these guys were half in the bag. Through struggled words<br>and gulps of beer I asked our new friends about drinking and<br>driving. |